I finally fathom. I realise the importance of one thing. Alot of things in life are really not just based on a fixed criteria. Alot of the times, it is based on pure feel and sense. Where matters of the heart are concerned, you could be the best looking man in the world with the best qualities any girl could ask for, but that would not signify that you would and could get anyone you want. As far as i know, its a two way thing. Its a kind of feeling, a kind of chemistry and without that kind of an understanding, that kind of spark there could be no chemistry, much less affinity. If everything was based on precise criteria, it wouldn even be called love. It would be termed as a transaction maybe? Where work, business or even friends are cocncerned, the fact that you are influential might not always lead you to victory. Many times it needs luck, determination and zero complacency. On my terms, im pretty dependent on luck most of the time and i must admit i am a pretty lucky guy. Anyways, its been a long wait and its hours away before my "pre graduation" from secondary school. Enjoy