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Thursday, June 02, 2005

Those recurring butterflies, all over again : The idea of " like "

The idea of having a crush all over again. Feeling like that young 12 yr old kid after such a dry feeling of what i would call a relationship drought. I remember how it was like when it tried to chase what never could be mine. We were hanging out again. Once again, I found myself trying to be okay with the fact that we're just friends, but then when i grabbed her hand and then, well, I'm not okay, I was floating. This topic gets very touchy. But it is of late that some of my friends are in like, lost in like, and out of like. what im trying to do here is to draw a very stringent line between love and like. so besides my experiences that i relate to, i'll give you my idea of "like". Enjoy People.

I long for that feeling, those butterflies. some, refuse to admit that they are ok without a partner, some just admit their yearning for a new one again. Now im not the type of person that gets all mushy. I cant fall easily, but when i do, i fall hard. And when u discover that you are liking someone, its a whole new feeling that you feel so familiar with. The idea of love is something dangerous, something serious. Of course, the idea of like is the same, but the thirll of it, the butterflies felt and that feelings involved, its a much more enriched experience. So peeps, if you like someone, show interest. If you are already a couple, express your like.
Its when you realize that in some bizarre amazing fashion you have a big crush on someone that it takes a great deal of courage to admit . Not to her, but to yourself. You long to see her, but you dont tell her, you like her but you pretend to be friends. I mean its time we be more outright more mature and direct to things. How can you possibly like someone without knowing that her being happy is whats most important?

i think its time that we realise a date is but just a date with no other intentions. Its something common and that there is simplynothing wrong with a one on one. You get some , you lose some, whats the harm in letting whats inside you be known? Noone says its e ending of a friendship when its the ending of a courtship. its just a common misconception. A stigma. Have some guts people. Igt takes alot ot admit you like that someone. But be ready to admit it to yourself first. To my dear readers, this post was for some of you. Ihope that as you are erading it now, you understadn what i am trying to say.

6/02/2005 07:00:00 PM



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