Misfits







                


Saturday, March 28, 2009

It is here that the fashion trends make their debut.  It is here that the oldest live.  It is here that the people are touted as close minded, bound by values, expectations and tradition, unable to breakthrough.  When we are reading our papers and playing our games, juvenile suicides here, are on the rise even as you read this, word, after word.  A fast pace of life dependent on their modern infrastructure and the latest in technologies, everything is instant, accessible.  They give it many names, one of which is Nihon.  And so it is here, that Koichi Suginaka lives and will live, for his journey, is what I would call, the beginning of an ending. 


3 am, 5 hours of sleep to day one at work, but it had not mattered to the young man who turned 24 just 3 hours ago.  A reserved soft spoken man, the fresh graduate found a job at a day care centre, and it had not struck him as anything queer to be taking care of these four year olds when he could have been off at a public school. It did not strike him as anything silly, or stupid if I may say, that a man who graduated with a degree in English was taking care of a bunch of rascals. Rascals he would call them, for he was never a fan.


The night had ended, and morning was already here but the faster the morning graced him, the wider he was awake. He was not nervous, neither was he scared. The man just, could not sleep. As he lay in bed in his apartment in Tokyo, where the lights were never turned off, and the billboards ever changing, so were the memories in his mind that was deeply rooted, never to be faded way. I guess that is an inevitability regardless of the situation because through the passage of time, everything may pass, but the memories, we always keep.




Nisshi,


I got to go out with Rukawa and Takeshi today but when I went home, daddy asked why I came home so late. Why I never studied. But I did. Rukawa also went home late but he never got scolded. He never needed to do the dishes but I had to. If I was lucky, I would not get slapped as long as I did it quick. Takeshi is going away. His father is bringing him to Disneyland. I’m sure that he will have fun. I wish I could too but I know the day will not come. He always called me a bother, that I was a rascal.


Jan 2 1990.


 



The alarm rang like a school bell, a sound he did not want to wake to or familiarize with. It took him a year before he decided to get the job. He needed clothes to look decent, wax to do his hair, food to satisfy the appetite. He once wondered what was so upbeat about the times where poverty was rife. Now he knew. The pay was decent, and the interview a breeze. Koichi was a man that you would definitely call laidback. He put on his velvet jacket accompanied by his striped shirt that looked almost perfect. It was his signature look that he decided to splurge on the last time he got allowance from his parents who had now given up on this prodigal son. He was now on his own and also on his way. On his way to a workplace he knew he would dread but was willing to put himself through just for the sake of money, expectations and plain naivety. 


 “The kids here are mostly four year olds. What you do is simple. All we need is someone to give them the attention they need and the guidance they deserve. Nap time is 3pm. We do activities in the morning but that’s handled by me for today. You must be around though to make sure they are fine and not doing something else. As you know, parents are very particular and the last thing we want to do is offend them. The rest of the curriculum is here in the folder that I passed to you earlier on when we met. Any questions yet Mr. Suginaka?”


“Please, call me Koichi. Koichi is fine for me madam. No questions yet. I look forward to this job.”


Sure he was. Koichi had got himself into a mess he underestimated but that never bothered him, at least not yet. So 9am it was, as he waltzed his way into class. It looked just like the old times, during his fraternity days as a student, only smaller. Very much smaller and this time filled with kids, Many kids. 


“Children, come sit around.” The director said. 


He had forgotten her name already but he was sure it was in the folder. She was a middle aged woman, who seemed to have been there for a reasonable amount of time. The bespectacled lady must have been a lover for kids he though. That was exactly complementary to Koichi. But I guess it was not a problem since he was the only one who knew that. 


“This is Mr. Suginaka. He will be your new teacher so all of you have to listen to him. Are we clear children?”


The kids nodded in silence for a short bit, before an ecstatic and enthusiastic cheer followed which he swore irritated him to his gut.


“Good morning kids.” 


The day had just begun and it was sinking in but he took comfort in the amount of work he had to do and thought immediately that time would pass quickly as soon as he made himself busy. Trust me when I say, he could not wait when the clock struck at 3pm. It would aptly apply then, that silence is golden. 


SCHEDULE


0900-1000 Coloring

1000-1100 Breakfast

1100-1200 Puzzles and games

1200-0100 Playground time

0100-0200 Lunch

0200-0300 Story telling

0300-0400 Nap

0400-0500 Cartoons/ Videos (Decided by choice based on roster at the next page)

 


The young man who was now officially a day care teacher stared at his watch blankly, trying to fathom the fact only two hours had passed. A man that was once served in such spoilt fashion was now ironically, paid to serve these “angelic” kids; these rascals. The rose among the thorns was what you would call Koichi’s first problem and her name was Naomi Amuro.


Black was the colour of her short wavy hair, and her eyes seemed to sparkle in the most enchanting of ways.  Naomi Amuro was a toddler who was constantly oblivious to the space around her.  In other words, she was the definition of purity and simplicity.


The young man felt as though time was trapped in a capsule, that time was yet again, passing so slowly when in fact the time for cartoons, videos and going home was soon to come.  Ironically at this point, he could not relate to the fact that the first day at that day care centre was about to end.


Parents rushed in to pick their kids up as though picking up reserved goods from a store.  Koichi could not help but blame them for the state he was in right now; a state which made him look and feel like a lifeless and pathetic soul that served kids.


As a jubilant face masqueraded Koichi, he escorted the kids out one by one aversely.  Funny how all the kids left the day care hastily except for that bright-eyed girl, Naomi.


The immaculate girl embraced Koichi.  One which was earnest but wasn’t enough to impress Koichi that Naomi was genuine.


Koichi stood there, motionless, numb.






Nisshi,


Rukawa and Takeshi are very close to their parents.  Whenever they leave their homes, they would hug their parents.  I really envy them both and I do not know why I never got a chance to do that.  I always wanted to hug them, but they are always busy.  Yesterday, I tried to look for them before I left the house for school but Daddy was on the phone, and Mummy was out in the garden.  Are they too busy for me?  Do you think they love me?


Jan 10 1990.






Koichi stepped into the day care centre on the following day.  It felt stale to him, he felt out of his depth in that place.  The day seemed like it was a carbon copy of the previous day, a routine which he knew will be stuck to him for a while.  


That hug lingered around his head, he tried to eliminate it but his mind was so consumed with that retrospective thought.


As the day progressed, Naomi was the one kid at the day car centre whom Koichi kept observing.  He simply did not understand the meaning of this all.


12 pm and it was playground time.  Koichi’s task as a day care teacher was to bring all the thrilled kids to a playground nearby for games like catching and sand castle building.  Mundane would be the word that I would use to describe Koichi’s feel during playground time as.


Naomi isolated herself from the other kids.  She did not look as though she was lonely neither did she look like she was cheerless.  She was engulfed in her own world of sand-castle building.  


“Mr. Suginaka?” Naomi called for the young man harmlessly.


Needless to say Koichi had to attend to her needs, or in his perspective, he had to serve her.  


“Yes Naomi?  What’s on your mind?”


Naomi did not respond to that question but just gave him a pile of sand from her palms and smiled naturally at him.


It was not like him to reciprocate to children’s offers but he did, reluctantly.



The sweetness of 5 pm arrived and Koichi had to wait for the mad rush of parents once again.  It was a moment when he would usually feel plastic and unreal.  This time though, it was different for him.  So there it was, that the man who seemed to loath his job or rather the content of what the job consisted of, now felt a tinge of difference. As the end of yet another day dawned upon him, he found himself, this time, ushering Naomi to her parents, which left him in awe, not in awe of what Naomi did for him, but in awe of himself, his own actions. 



Sitting on a bench by a playground with the “backdrop” of the beautiful evening sun, Koichi gazed out and looked at the playground or rather the other side of life where the pasture seemed greener, He saw adults along with several other kids. As he allowed them to enter his confidence, He saw what they saw.

In the eyes of a child, they saw no hate, they saw no obsession, they saw no greed and they never saw materialism. Yet in their eyes were of such pure innocence and the tears rolling down only when they seemed to had lost their favorite toy or when their parents left them to go for work or when play had to stop because of rain. Their point of sadness was brought about through genuine loss with neither loss nor gain in their world; their world of innocence. They had no worries, no bills to worry about, clothes to think of or girls to be bogged down by. Their world was, it was in fact nothing. They were for themselves with everything in the world provided for them.

In the eyes of us, we valued war over lives at stake when it came to possession of rights. We spoke of freedom of speech but we were yet killed or banned from what we wanted to say. We valued our faces more than truth. We hid what was in the stash and took out what looked good in the trophy cabinet. In the eyes of us, we seemed to absorb the fact that our way to survive was to pry open the harsh reality of intent of us humans.


In the eyes of the infants, they had a world of their own, a world they created subconsciously along with other infants, other kids that allowed us adults to enter the realm of their world but never to be part of their world. We were past that already, everybody has it once. That is why we experience nostalgia from time to time.


So home he went, for tomorrow was still to come.





Nisshi,


          I love the playground. I have so much fun there and I am not stopped by anyone or anything. I wish my whole life was in a playground then I would not need to face other things already.


Jan 20 1990.










3/28/2009 02:10:00 AM


Monday, January 05, 2009

" You see that pack of sweet Dunhill killing sticks on the end of the piano? All you need to know about life is retained in those four walls. You will notice that one of your personalities is seduced by the illusions of grandeur - the gold packet of king size with a regal insignia, an attractive implication towards grandeur and wealth, the subtle suggestion that cigarettes are indeed your royal and loyal friends, and that, mate, is a lie.Your other personality is trying to draw your attention to the flip side of the discussion, written in boring bold black and white, it's a statement that these neat little sergeants of death and in fact trying to kill you and that, mate, is the truth. Oh, beauty is a beguiling call to death and i'm addicted to the sweet pitch of its siren. That that starts sweet ends bitter, and that which starts bitter ends sweet. That is why you and i love the drugs. Now please, pass me a light."



1/05/2009 11:48:00 PM


Saturday, December 20, 2008

Fall for myself.


The rain fell mercilessly on the ground as I gazed out to the window. It wasn’t heavy, it wasn’t light either. It just seemed, never to stop. It was the kind where you couldn’t really see rain until you heard the pitter and the patter as it hit the ground. The cars that passed by every two seconds made the rain ever more present. The breeze that went through the grills of my window sent their greetings of course. However, it was the day, that sat me down as I gazed out. Mallow skies, colored apartments and hotels that seemed to be all of the same color in one fell swoop; a dull pale yellow, an overcast sky if you like.  


If I looked carefully,  I could see what was on the television in the unit of the apartment opposite mine. 


 And if I zoomed out of that focus, I could see the colors of the clothes hung out by forgetful or probable sleeping neighbors.  When was the last time I would pay attention to these details and take time to appreciate my surroundings. I could not recall. When was the last time I headed out to fool around or get drunk with my blokes, catch a decent movie or make out in the sea of my blankets with God knows who. Every damn day, I’ll tell you that much.


 Am I having one of my epiphanic moments you ask. Why, no. I’m merely learning to fall for myself. 


I would sit myself down and call the people that mattered. Send an email to my father who was somewhere in Europe, enjoying the fruits of his labor. I would take a decent shave and sink my anatomy in a nice warm bubble bath.  Get dressed decently in case a guest might stop by. Audrey Hepburn would sing to me as I fed on glamorized alcohol that people deemed as wine, smiling, to Breakfast at Tiffany’s.  Paying the bills, going for a run and cleaning up the house would be next.  Working on my long due assignments would come at long last,  as I sat down, enjoyably to wine and to delve in the passion of my work.


If I looked carefully,  I could see what was on the television in the unit of the apartment opposite mine. 


The news was on. But yet I wasn’t so sure. The rain got heavier, makings its presence much more seen and heard. I couldn’t afford to confirm my affirmations. I had assignments to do, my grandmother to call and my dad to email. I had Bills to pay and my long awaited bubble bath. Photographs of my surroundings to be taken. My self promised runs and household chores. But all that could wait. For now the rain had invited me to bed, once again. The ever enticing bed made an offer simply too ard to resist. But I promise, I will be ascetic to my tasks later.  Please, please, let me get what I want. 

Sleep. 

Goodnight. 

Later.



12/20/2008 06:01:00 PM


Thursday, December 18, 2008


When We met Why.

My Auntie walked in today to my room. It was a normal walk in like the usual days, with the usual questions. 

" what did you eat? "
" who cooked? "
" are you hungry "

But then she paused for a while, looked at me and said. 
" I bought 5721 last week cause your mother was born on the 21st, so this week i changed to 5751 because your mother was born in 1951. But why did 5721 come out this week. Darling why."

Why she asks. 
After sharing so many similar encounters with 4 numbers, she asks, why.

Then it hit me. We ask why. We ask questions because at every point in time we feel the need to ask. Why.

Just two days ago I was with someone that was smiling out and out. It was supposed to be a happy day. But it ended in tears when the crowd was less, when the night had begun to consume all that happiness that was pushing her on the whole day. She had fallen out of love and in the midst of it all she asked me, "Why me." 
She said, "So painful."

We all have our loves in life. As Wikipedia has kindly noted out to me. It would seem that perhaps love, is an underrated term to most. Or rather, a term that's used far less than its original nature of versatility. Romance. That to most, love is romance. When in fact love could be a want to gain fame,  a want to be rich, or a love for an object rather a human being. It could be romance, yet it could be love of a more greater nature. Family. But let us not go too far out now. 

Perhaps, it is likely to you that through the nature of this blog, I will go to and stop at romance. You are right even though I started out the entry with my auntie's questions as to why her wants to get a little richer were not satisfied. She had not set out to earn a million, or spend it on clothes. She had wanted that bit of money, to give to those she loved because she is if i may, the most wonderful woman any son could have.  

But why she asks. Why we ask. Our inquisitive nature never seems to stop it seems. One day I had been talking to a friend who asked me if i had a girlfriend of which i replied, "No." I asked him. What about you. His response?

"for what."

I'd like to add. He isn't a bad looking guy. He isn't poor at all and in nowhere near the areas of stupid. He's a smart lad just finding his own way in life. His response was tantamount to a why. But it led me to ask myself the exact same question. For what. And if we need love. Why.

You might think that every word, every term that you cannot understand, can be explained to you with the use of the net, the dictionary or a very smart man. Perhaps for most things in life, that is true. But there is one thing a dictionary will fail to explain not because of its incapabilities but because of the magnanimity of the word. I have come to realize that perhaps love is the only word that belongs to everyone. Like how everyone has hair but styles it differently. It's the same with love. I think after some time or in the past 2 hours or so that i have struggled to finish this post, i have somehow within me found a compromise. That perhaps love shouldn't be one way or the other. That perhaps to each his own, is more than akin to love itself.

But here is my deepest contradiction. 

To me, love is not about the best girlfriend/boyfriend you can be. It's not necessarily how nice you make yourself look for your other half or giving and taking. It's about finding someone that you can talk to. someone that you can believe in because she'd believe in you or at the very least, know what you're believing in and why. That person should be someone that clicks with you without a catalyst or better yet with a catalyst makes the most wonderful of companions. That to me, is love. Might she be my best friend you ask. Might she be just someone that i can talk to and not be with you ask. 

You just might be right but one day when that question is asked to me. Why are you with her. I want my answer to be.

" She's my best friend. She's my girlfriend. But most of all, she's someone i can talk to about anything, anytime. She understands me and i see her not as my friend, my girlfriend or my wife when i think about her. Even though she may be one of those things or all. I think of her and all i see, is beauty."

I've come to a point where i can respect the differing views on love in the space of 4 hours. Its amazing because the past few weeks have been spent pondering about why people view it as this way. I sought to wonder if maybe i was the one looking at things wrongly. For someone that never took longer than 2 hours to write up a post, take it from me. I have carefully considered every word. An epiphany in 4 hours owing to staring into spaces and words is a mighty nirvana. 

"I thought she was cute. The feeling is just there."
"I can learn to love you more, bit by bit, day by day."
"I dont know. It just happened."
"He was nice. He never gave up."

These are reasons I probably would have never accepted 4 hours ago. For some reason i had chosen to believe that this was all too shallow. But maybe i have learnt to accept that this is, a way of love. Yet my deepest contradiction is yet to be accounted for. I would love to have someone to talk to, anytime about anything. I would love to have someone i see as beautiful to talk to. Yes i would need it.  "for what" my friend would ask. 

The same thing I would ask to the person that found someone cute or just loved the idea of holding his/her hand, embracing him/her, or was just wooing this person for the sake of a feeling unable to be explained for. "for what." Is it necessary? 

I guess my answers revolve around an area of gray. I do not know. I guess there's no place or time for love. A few hours ago I wondered if its necessary. Why do people go running for love at 16 or 60? Is it just a trend to have one, a feel to have one, or a desperate need? Is it spontaneous, or somewhat planned? nice when he/shes with you, or nice when you saw him/her? My answer is that because each of us have such a different attitude towards love, our reasons for wanting them are indefinitely different. And because i say to each his own, it will forever be a right. Something we must not question. We should not question. Things happen for a reason. But take this with you. As a friend had too once told me.

"It's someone you can live with. Not someone you can live without, because if it's someone you cannot live without, then you have no life. Then you have not lived."

Because love is not your life. Because love forms part of your life. Because love makes your life better. because it shouldn't harm you. He/she has to be someone you can live with, not someone you cannot live without. 

Why you ask. Why we need love. 
I say. Why not. 






12/18/2008 04:19:00 AM


Monday, December 15, 2008

Life gets you in a funny way.

Not too long ago, I had a plan. A plan that was flawless and seemingly without pitfall. I took no such things as surprises or life visits to deal my plans any blows or thwarted direction. I guess that is when life got me. In a funny way. My father used to say that when you're sitting pretty, always think of danger. When you're in deep shit, think of deeper shit. Yes i guess you could say my father was a man of caution. Whether or not that benefited him is another story to tell on another day. Yes because this is my story. 

How do I start. I guess most times, we have this feeling about something that's mostly based on what people say. You tend to trust the people that have been there and done that. Though each experience of each individual may differ, you can't help but accept the general overview. That perhaps, it does suck. As much as you perk yourself up with the many movies, the countdown thats brought down to make it seem ever nearer, you probably can't help but, well like i said, accept the general overview. I guess that is the mindset that i went in with that morning at tekong ferry terminal. Most of the time, I guess its innate to feel that bit of freedom lost to the country when you enlist. It's a sucky feeling really, not much to lie about. That's how i started my life in army. Making full use of the suckiness to make my life a little more enjoyable. 

You see i never planned to be in the PES C batch. I despised the thought, despised the term and for a long time, never learnt to respect the people in it. With. Or without excuse. Yet when it was deemed that my problems were a tad too serious for "suay" or sebei suay" to handle and a bright C was written next to my pes status. It dawned on me. KAR-fuckin-MA. My dreams of getting into command school, my thoughts of maybe one day being in the position to tell people that, you can do it, were gone that very morning. But back to the story, let's just say the road along that 7 weeks was a rough, nice, funny yet most enlightening experience that i find almost hard to forget. They say when you're in camp, you'll find it easy to see, who are the most steady ones, or in a more literal sense, the ones you can rely on. For the camp I had been in , it was more of the opposite, i saw with my own eyes how selfish people could get, and the lengths they would go to escape any kind of activity or in this modern age what we call as "geng".

In case most of you didn't already know, you're not supposed to speak of the army. But let me say this. The road will be tough. Pes C or PEs A, you will find the difficulties and trust me on most levels, you will find them to be sometimes, almost the same. You will complain, you will hate. You will be full of angst, and you will be unhappy. But at the end of it all, you'll look back like I am right now as Im typing this out while looking out to the window. And you will say the sweetest phrase.
 

" That was kick-ass."


To the mates from Viper Company, We went as far as we could. Perhaps we're the only ones to know that. But self knowledge is better than no knowledge. 


12/15/2008 03:10:00 AM


Saturday, December 13, 2008

This is a story about a boy, about a boy who said that this was somehow his last treat, his last write, his last piece. His swan song if you may. Ironically just 5 months on and the former is disregarded as a moment of folly, a rash decision, the usual season for mistakes if you may. 

Yet what you may ask, is so special about tonight that he begins his usual rant, his expression of ways to be yet again, nom de plume?

Fate hits you in a way that you find hard to accept, sometimes hard to explain he says. To him, he thought his life was planned in a way that people could ideally accept and agree with. He was right. It was logical, with all the foreseen blind spots and pitfalls. But yet life had different plans for him when fate hit him with a new status, and a new entry. A re-entry if you may. 

Tonight he is at a loss for words. Perhaps that is why I am referring to him as he, a boy, his and what have you. Know this he says. He will write. For reasons that he does not know yet, he will write a lot more than he used to. Perhaps this is a time for change, perhaps things should never have changed but most likely he says, it is a season for change. 

Tomorrow he says, for now we sleep. 

12/13/2008 04:18:00 AM


Thursday, July 17, 2008

The Implications of Mr Ramble and Repeat.

I like to write and hence i try my best to do my best writing even if people think it might not be the best that they have read or be among the best they rank as the best.

But now I cant write because the ideas are not arriving and they are taking a long time to arrive so maybe their bus has not arrived fast enough for my ideas to arrive in my head that is currently waiting for them to arrive.

So maybe i'll put up a notice for them to start arriving so that my brain will notice they have arrived fast enough for me to start writing my book, which has noticed that it is still pretty empty because my brain hasn't noticed the ideas so maybe the notice will help the ideas to notice that i put up a notice for them to start arriving.

I ramble a lot and I repeat a lot. I wander. I wonder. And i also blunder from time to time. 

Especially when i cant write. And right now, i can't write. 



7/17/2008 09:24:00 PM



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